Chance or Choice?

What is a chance? What is a choice? What are their differences? How can you relate chances to choices and choices to chances? Well, I do not know. That’s why I’m asking.

Choices are about decision-making. It involves critical thinking. Every choices you make will have an impact in your life.  So before you make any choices, reflect on what will be the effect. Be it good or bad, as long as you can stand and live by it, go ahead. It’s your life, it’s your decision, it’s your choice. You are the one who is responsible in every choices you make. Nobody else but you.

Chances are your fate and destiny.  Que Sera Sera. What will be? Will be. Come what may. Always expect the unexpected. But it doesn’t mean that you’ll just wait what your fate instore for you. Do not let destiny control you instead let yourself control your destiny. Grab every chances, don’t let it pass by especially if it would help yourself a lot.

Now, to make it more clear. Let us put chances and choices in a situation. Let us take love as an example. When you meet the right person to love at the right place and at the right time, that’s what you call a chance. When you meet someone you’re attracted to, that’s a chance too.

Being caught that there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, richer than your partner and yet you decide to love your partner just the same, as what he/she is and what he/she has, that’s definitely a choice. Attraction comes to us by chance but true love is truly a choice.

Think of it, fate brings people together, but its still up to us to make it happen. We may meet someone by chance, but loving and staying with that someone is still our choice.


~ by luckwatchero on March 8, 2007.

7 Responses to “Chance or Choice?”

  1. first!!!!!!
    parang gaia 🙂

    anyway, as always, very well said…

    being a friend to you is a choice that i made regardless of a lot of pasaway times (mostly made by you…mwah!)…even if we met by chance. 🙂

  2. para pala itong koreanobelang “Something About 1%”….hehehe…

    ps. cnu cno ba ang ksali sa game?…:lol:

  3. I agree mom dee! It’s also a choice to remain friends with dengdeng kahit malapit nang bumingo sa pagiging pasaway! Haha 😀

    Anyway, love the article. I always believe that life is a matter of choice. People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. They seemed to forget that what we are and where we are today is a choice that we made.

    “Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice: It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved” – William Jennings Bryan

  4. Nice topic again as usual….
    Ang gagaling talaga ng mga kapamilya ko :clap: nabasa ko blog ni Dhenz nabasa ko naman comment ni Naidz galing talaga ng mga ito hay buti na lang kapamilya ako nakakahawa daw ang kagwapuhan , katalinuhan at kagandahan kaya dito na lang ako choice kong maging kapamilya at by chance nakilala ko ang mga mababait na kapamilya tulad ninyo

  5. Chance or Choice? parang Needs and Wants… which is important?? in life, sometimes it’s good to take chances but to rely on it is such a bad choice…

    it’s just a matter of choice kung anong path ang susundan natin, kaya whether good or bad ang outcome, never regret but instead, learn from it…

  6. Naalala ko tuloy ang Love Life ko

  7. ano ung tungkol sa luvlife mo kuya?….hehehe

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