Chance or Choice?

What is a chance? What is a choice? What are their differences? How can you relate chances to choices and choices to chances? Well, I do not know. That’s why I’m asking.

Choices are about decision-making. It involves critical thinking. Every choices you make will have an impact in your life.  So before you make any choices, reflect on what will be the effect. Be it good or bad, as long as you can stand and live by it, go ahead. It’s your life, it’s your decision, it’s your choice. You are the one who is responsible in every choices you make. Nobody else but you.

Chances are your fate and destiny.  Que Sera Sera. What will be? Will be. Come what may. Always expect the unexpected. But it doesn’t mean that you’ll just wait what your fate instore for you. Do not let destiny control you instead let yourself control your destiny. Grab every chances, don’t let it pass by especially if it would help yourself a lot.

Now, to make it more clear. Let us put chances and choices in a situation. Let us take love as an example. When you meet the right person to love at the right place and at the right time, that’s what you call a chance. When you meet someone you’re attracted to, that’s a chance too.

Being caught that there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, richer than your partner and yet you decide to love your partner just the same, as what he/she is and what he/she has, that’s definitely a choice. Attraction comes to us by chance but true love is truly a choice.

Think of it, fate brings people together, but its still up to us to make it happen. We may meet someone by chance, but loving and staying with that someone is still our choice.

~ by luckwatchero on March 8, 2007.