How can we love people who don’t seem to have things worth at all? Why do we become so numb caring for people whom at times don’t even think of us in a day or two? Why do we let ourselves get hurt and continue hopin for a love that makes us defenseless? And why do we prioritize these people who only choose us as options? Are these the reasons why sometimes in love, we end up losing ourselves?
Life is a choice. If you’re being blessed 90% of the time, it’s because you chose to be blessed. If you’re being cursed 90% of the time, it’s because you chose to be cursed. You have more power than you think you have. Don’t be shocked but you have the power to create the life you want. Here’s the truth, you created the life that you are living right now. If you don’t want your situation, change it. If you can’t change your situation, change your attitude towards your situation. But unless you change, nothing happens. The bottom line is, it’s really up to you.
Some people are never going to be your friend no matter how hard you try. That’s just their lost. They are probably like that with almost everyone anyway, so don’t take it persoally. If someone is continually rude to you when you’re trying to be nice, just shrug your shoulders and move on. While it may be tempting to get revenge, it often isn’t even worth doing so. Rude people usually don’t get ahead in their personal relationships. Their nastiness is probably much more damaging to them than it will ever be to you.