Do You Miss Someone?

Have you ever missed someone and felt terrible because you think that he doesn’t miss you? Missing someone is terrible but at the same time, a sweet feeling. You will be sitting around wondering if you meant anything to him.  Thinking if he ever cares about you.  Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it’s him. Looking out of the window hoping that he will surprise you by appearing downstairs. Sitting in front of the television but thinking of him, missing the final episode of your favorite show. Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time you were out together.  Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams, plans, future.  Logging on to the internet hoping to see him online. When you realize that he isn’t online and did not return your mail, yo will start worrying if he is okay.

Missing someone is a way of growing up I guess. It exposes you to loneliness.  It teaches you how to cope with being lonely and let you know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness.  Sometimes it feels good to miss someone.  Yo know that you really care andyo u indulge in the feeling of loving, caring for him. But missing someone and not knowing if he is feeling the same is terrible. You feel as if you are being left alone.

So if you miss someone, tell him and let them know. At the same time, ask if they miss you too. Don’t let the feeling of missing someone become jealousy or paranoia. If you are the one being missed and you know it, let the other party know. If you miss him too, tell them. Don’t let them wait.  And if the one you are missing can’t ordoesn’t reciprocate, MOVE ON!!!

Life is short, so instead of being hurt & waiting around – Move on!! Believe in yourself & life, there’s someone out there waiting to miss you too! The moment of joy spent under the willow, the tear of the eye that wets your pillow, sometimes pain and sometimes pleasure.  When given by friends, both are a treasure.

Work like you don’t need the money. Love like you’ve never been hurt. Dance like nobody’s watching. Sing like nobody’s listening. Live like it’s Heaven on Earth.

~ by luckwatchero on October 12, 2007.